I tried BBW dating sites so you don’t have to (but hey, you might want to)

I’m Kayla, and I’m a plus-size woman who actually used these sites. Not for a week. For months. I swiped on the bus, in the dentist’s lobby, and yes—on my couch with a face mask on. I wanted kindness, real talk, and dates that didn’t feel like a sales pitch. Here’s what worked for me, …

Internet Dating for Widows: What Helped Me, What Hurt, and What Felt Human

I’m a widow. I didn’t plan to date again. Who does? But life got quiet. Too quiet. My sister sat at my table, slid her phone over, and said, “Just try.” So I did. I spent nine months on apps. I had coffee, cried in a parking lot twice, and learned a lot. You know …

I Tried American Indian Dating Websites: My Honest, Real-World Take

I’m Kayla, and yep, I actually used these sites. I made profiles. I chatted. I met two people for coffee. One turned into a friend. One turned into nothing. That’s dating, right? I wanted spaces that feel safe and real for Native folks and those who respect our culture. So I tested a few sites …

“I Tried Islamic Dating Sites For 8 Months — Here’s My Honest Take”

I’m Kayla. I’m a Muslim revert, 31, and based near Chicago. I wanted marriage, not games. So I tested a bunch of Islamic dating sites for 8 months. I paid for some plans. I took notes like a nerd. And yes, my mom texted me duas before every meet-up. That part made me smile. If …

I Tried Cowboy Dating for 3 Months — Here’s What Felt Real

I’m Kayla. I actually went and dated cowboys for three months. North Texas. A bit in Oklahoma. Boots on, hair tied back, heart open. You know what? It was messy and sweet at the same time. Why I gave it a shot I wanted someone steady. Someone who tells the truth, even when it’s hard. …

Speed Dating in Denver: My Honest, Slightly Awkward, Pretty Fun Night Out

You know what? I was tired of swiping. My thumb felt bored. So I tried speed dating in Denver. Twice, actually. Two very different nights, both worth talking about. If you’re curious whether the world is finally shifting from endless social feeds to quicker, more interactive chat spaces, check out this smart breakdown on how …

Granny Online Dating: My Real-Life Review (Yes, I Actually Used It)

Hi, I’m Kayla Sox. I’m 62, I bake too many cookies, and I have two grandkids who think I’m funny. After a long marriage and a quiet spell, I tried online dating last winter. I was nervous. My thumbs shook on that first message. But you know what? It wasn’t so scary. Sometimes sweet. Sometimes …

Dating Apps for People With Disabilities: A First-Person Tryout (Fictional, but Real-World Grounded)

Quick note: This is a fictional first-person review, built from real features, common pain points, and community feedback. It’s meant to feel like a true story, so folks can see what using these apps can be like.If you’d like an even deeper dive into individual screenshots, settings, and success stats, check out my longer-form breakdown …

Dating Sites for Those With Herpes: My First-Person Take

Note: This is a fictional first-person review based on real features, user reports, and careful research. I wrote it in “I” voice to make it easier to follow. Quick note: if you ever need to circle back or share this breakdown later, you can bookmark the full piece as my in-depth rundown of herpes-focused dating …

I Tried a BDSM Dating Website: Here’s What Happened

I’m Kayla. I’m a real person who dates, messes up, learns, and tries again. I spent two months on a BDSM dating website. I wanted to see if it felt safe, real, and worth the time. I’ll tell you what worked, what didn’t, and what made me pause.If you’d like another perspective, here’s what happened …